I’ve been dating this girl for well over a month. So far she hasn’t done anything to say she’s not trustworthy. She’s nice. And i’m her third boyfriend or long term relationship. But she has had casual relationships
And I eventually met her friends, guys and girls at a house party. And i find out she’s slept with many of the guy friends.
As she said it was fwb. I personally feel disrespected and insecure. She introduced me, and i even shook hands with the friends. And i feel like all the friends are embarrassed and getting an ego boost that im getting “sloppy seconds”
I know that’s terrible to say but it’s the only description that fits. I wouldn’t want my gf or wife to meet my ex or people that i slept with.
We talk about it. And her response is they are fwb. They’re her friends. She never dated them. But i feel like the loser who got the short end of the stick.
tldr: gf introduced me to friends she slept with and i feel disrespected and insecure over it.
edit: i will talk to her again. I haven’t talked to her for 1 day. Even though it’s a month of dating she did tell me she really likes me. She apologized for not telling me which I told her she didn’t need to. I acknowledged it’s an issue on my end more than her. She did tell me she talked to one of the guy friends to understand why i was feeling like this. And it seems she is understanding of my feelings. Idk what was said tho but i won’t lie her saying she talked to the guy friend made me more insecure. Shes being honest about everything so far. I’ll talked to her again
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